Sonya Alone: Thinking About Friendship

I’ve been given many reasons to ponder the nature of friendship these past months — a most cherished value, to be a good friend.  I certainly haven’t come up with anything new or profound, but this song, Sonya Alone, heard at Dave Malloy’s exhilarating electropop opera, Natasha, Pierre and the Great Comet of 1812, says everything I feel about what a great friendship should be, especially a friendship between girls.  It makes me ache each time I hear Brittain Ashford sing Sonya’s heartbreaking aria for Natasha.  Listen.


Read The New York Times review

Time, Time, Time: The Clock


I’m on a mission to enjoy my city more – – to find time to indulge in fragments of its bounty and beauty and whimsy and whatever else.  This morning before Jasper’s futsal and Livia’s tennis, before their piano and homework and the dismantling of the Christmas tree, we rose early and snuck off to MOMA to see an hour or so of Christian Marclay’s The Clock.  We arrived just before ten and left at a quarter after eleven – – all four of us riveted by the urgency of time, trying to place the actor, recognize the clip … conscious, conscious.  It’s gimmicky yes, at first, until the larger desperation of us collectively takes over.  I also kept appreciating how the piece is an ode to structure – – how a solid, compelling structure can allow you to accomplish just about anything.  Sort of like the freedom the poet finds in form.  Jasper, 8, Livia, 12, want to return in the middle of the night.  So do I.  We may attempt this Friday at the next round the clock viewing.

Last Chance For Once at Intimate NY Theater Workshop


for my husband’s birthday i bought tickets to the movie turned musical at

the new york theater workshop.

a neighbor had raved about the performance and tickets were already sold out.

the show was moving to broadway,

but i didn’t want to wait for that.

so here’s what i learned, a tip:

call at 1pm on the day you want to see it to put your name on a waitlist.

you have until january 15.

tickets come up, not but many, but they do.  tickets have been saved for guests who want to become patrons.

call 212-460-5475.

the night we were there alan rickman was there too.

the music is marvelous.

overall, even better than the movie.


be sure to have a drink on stage.